{"id":344,"date":"2017-02-09T13:43:39","date_gmt":"2017-02-09T21:43:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/?p=344"},"modified":"2021-12-28T23:56:29","modified_gmt":"2021-12-29T07:56:29","slug":"elizabeths-talk-at-the-science-and-nonduality-conference-2012","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/elizabeths-talk-at-the-science-and-nonduality-conference-2012\/","title":{"rendered":"The Self of Peace: Elizabeth Bader at the Science and Nonduality Conference"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Elizabeth Bader speaks from the heart about the spiritual journey and the profound lessons conflict resolution can teach us about peace and who we are. High points include:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><a title=\"Blessed are the peacemakers\" href=\"http:\/\/elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/blessed-are-the-peacemakers\/\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Blessed are the peacemakers<\/span><\/a>:\u00a0 Using <a title=\"Peter Levine on the Spiritual Journey and Healing Trauma\" href=\"http:\/\/elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/peter-levine-spiritual-journey-healng-traum\/\">Peter Levine\u2019s<\/a> concept of \u201cresourcing\u201d with positive impressions, Elizabeth and the audience enjoy a beautiful music video on this theme before delving into the \u201cdark\u201d side of human nature.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">A doorway to peace with others:<\/span>\u00a0 Disappointment is often the doorway through which people must pass in order to be more realistic about themselves and others, and to achieve conflict resolution.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">A doorway to peace within<\/span>: On the spiritual journey, accepting disappointment about the inevitability of conflict and the shortcomings of human nature can lead to a deeper experience of peace.\u00a0 We stop trying to change the inevitable.\u00a0 We turn within.<\/li>\n<li><a title=\"The Psychology of Mediation: The IDR Cycle\" href=\"http:\/\/elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/the-idr-cycle-in-mediation\/\"><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">The IDR cycle<\/span><\/a>:\u00a0 A cycle of ego-<i>inflation<\/i>, ego-<i>deflation <\/i>and <i>realistic resolution<\/i> is often experienced by parties during the negotiation and mediation of conflict, as discussed in <a title=\"http:\/www.elizabethbader.com\/publications.html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/publications.html\">Elizabeth\u2019s publications<\/a>.\u00a0 The cycle is paradigmatic of the way our egos are challenged by the world and, often, ultimately reach resolution.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">A neuroscience of mediation:<\/span> \u00a0Findings from neuroscientists <a title=\"Stephen Porges on Polyvagal Theory and Healing Trauma\" href=\"http:\/\/elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/stephen-porges-polyvagal-theory-healing-trauma\/\">Stephen Porges<\/a> (author of The Polyvagal Theory, 2011) and Tali Sharot provide insight into ego-inflation (overconfidence) and the IDR cycle.<\/li>\n<li><span style=\"text-decoration: underline;\">Self v. Ego<\/span>:\u00a0 During mediation, seeing what is real in people often helps them release rigid ego-involvements, positions and identifications.<\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<p>Thus, spirituality, psychology and conflict resolution come together in a practical way during mediation.\u00a0 For more on Elizabeth\u2019s work, see her <a title=\"http:\/\/elizabethbader.com\/publications.html\" href=\"https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/publications.html\">publications<\/a>, including especially:<\/p>\n<ul>\n<li><i>\u201cSelf, Identity and the IDR Cycle: Understanding the Deeper Meaning of \u2018Face\u2019 in Mediation<\/i>,\u201d International Journal of Applied Psychoanalytic Studies (2011)\u00a0 <a href=\"https:\/\/onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1002\/aps.295\">https:\/\/onlinelibrary.wiley.com\/doi\/abs\/10.1002\/aps.295<\/a> and<\/li>\n<li><i>\u201cThe Psychology of Mediation: Issues of Self and Identity and the IDR Cycle,\u201d<\/i> 10(2) Pepperdine Dispute Resolution Law Journal 183 (2010).\u00a0 Available at <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/SelfandIdentity.pdf\">www.elizabethbader.com\/SelfandIdentity.pdf<\/a><\/li>\n<\/ul>\n<!--themify_builder_content-->\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-344\" data-postid=\"344\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-344 themify_builder tf_clear\">\n    <\/div>\n<!--\/themify_builder_content-->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Elizabeth Bader speaks about the profound lessons conflict resolution can teach us about peace and who we are. A blend of psychology, spirituality and neuroscience, including the work of Stephen Porges, Tali Sharot and Peter Levine.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":6,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":true,"template":"","format":"video","meta":{"footnotes":""},"categories":[13,67,27,75,26,17,79,9,57,64,55],"tags":[25,18,35,24,45,21,23,20,19,34,106,28,36,22,32,29,31,30,44],"class_list":["post-344","post","type-post","status-publish","format-video","hentry","category-healing-trauma","category-mediation-2","category-mediation","category-resolving-conflict","category-peter-levine","category-process-of-mediation","category-psychology-of-conflict-resolution","category-psychology-of-mediation","category-self-and-identity-2","category-the-idr-cycle","category-the-spiritual-journey","tag-almaas","tag-confidence","tag-ego","tag-gurdjieff","tag-identity","tag-idr-cycle","tag-mediation","tag-narcissism","tag-overconfidence","tag-peace","tag-peter-levine","tag-science-and-nonduality","tag-science-and-nonduality-2012","tag-self-esteem","tag-somatic-experiencing","tag-spirituality","tag-stephen-w-porges","tag-true-self","tag-what-is-self","post_format-post-format-video","has-post-title","has-post-date","has-post-category","has-post-tag","has-post-comment","has-post-author",""],"yoast_head":"<!-- This site is optimized with the Yoast SEO plugin v25.2 - https:\/\/yoast.com\/wordpress\/plugins\/seo\/ -->\n<title>The Self of Peace: Elizabeth Bader at SAND 2012<\/title>\n<meta name=\"description\" content=\"SAND 2012. 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