{"id":8128,"date":"2018-03-08T16:05:44","date_gmt":"2018-03-09T00:05:44","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/?p=8128"},"modified":"2022-05-20T20:49:22","modified_gmt":"2022-05-21T03:49:22","slug":"true-mastery-in-difficult-situations-lessons-from-the-ancient-chinese","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/true-mastery-in-difficult-situations-lessons-from-the-ancient-chinese\/","title":{"rendered":"True Mastery in Difficult Situations:  Lessons From the Ancient Chinese"},"content":{"rendered":"<figure id=\"attachment_8134\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-8134\" style=\"width: 200px\" class=\"wp-caption alignleft\"><a href=\"https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/200px-\u5167\u696d-bigseal.svg-e1520524587230.png\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"wp-image-8134 size-full\" src=\"https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/200px-\u5167\u696d-bigseal.svg-e1520524649596.png\" alt=\"\" width=\"200\" height=\"133\" \/><\/a><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-8134\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Nei-Yeh in Chinese script<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p>As we explore difficult subjects such as <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/emancipation-hatred-trauma-mediation-spirituality-trauma-work\/\">hatred<\/a>, <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/trauma-101-and-ptsd\/\">trauma<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/psychology-spiritual-groups-dilemmas-openness-idr-cycle\/\">psychological<\/a> and <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/psychology-spiritual-groups-dilemmas-openness-idr-cycle\/\">spiritual group dynamics<\/a>, it is important to seek nourishment and balance.<span id='easy-footnote-1-8128' class='easy-footnote-margin-adjust'><\/span><span class='easy-footnote'><a href='https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/true-mastery-in-difficult-situations-lessons-from-the-ancient-chinese\/#easy-footnote-bottom-1-8128' title='This is in keeping with the &lt;a href=&quot;https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/mission-statement-2\/&quot;&gt;Mission Statement&lt;\/a&gt; of this website.'><sup>1<\/sup><\/a><\/span><\/p>\n<p>As the <em>Nei-yeh,<\/em><span id='easy-footnote-2-8128' class='easy-footnote-margin-adjust'><\/span><span class='easy-footnote'><a href='https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/true-mastery-in-difficult-situations-lessons-from-the-ancient-chinese\/#easy-footnote-bottom-2-8128' title='See Harold D. Roth, Original Tao, Inward Training and the Foundations of Taoist Mysticism, Columbia University Press, 1999.'><sup>2<\/sup><\/a><\/span> an ancient Chinese text, advises: <em>Even when seeking to transform situations, preserve your own energy. If you wish to be able to master difficult situations, stay true to yourself.<\/em><\/p>\n<p>Here is an audio file of Elizabeth reading this wonderful ancient text. The full text is below.<\/p>\n<p><a href=\"https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/E_Bader49711-e13574169642544.jpg\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"aligncenter size-full wp-image-1444\" src=\"https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/E_Bader49711-e13574169642544.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"133\" height=\"175\" srcset=\"https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/E_Bader49711-e13574169642544.jpg 133w, https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/E_Bader49711-e13574169642544-114x150.jpg 114w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 133px) 100vw, 133px\" \/><\/a><\/p>\n<audio class=\"wp-audio-shortcode\" id=\"audio-8128-1\" preload=\"none\" style=\"width: 100%;\" controls=\"controls\"><source type=\"audio\/mpeg\" src=\"https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Nei-Yeh-Ch.9-read-by-Elizabeth.mp3?_=1\" \/><a href=\"https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Nei-Yeh-Ch.9-read-by-Elizabeth.mp3\">https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/wp-content\/uploads\/Nei-Yeh-Ch.9-read-by-Elizabeth.mp3<\/a><\/audio>\n<p>Thanks to Audrey Seymour and the<a href=\"http:\/\/www.truepurposeinstitute.com\"> True Purpose Institute<\/a> for hosting Elizabeth and providing this tape.<\/p>\n<p>For more on this subject, please see <a href=\"https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/trauma-healing-mediation-spirituality\/\">Beyond Technique: Trauma Healing, Mediation and Spirituality.<\/a><\/p>\n<hr \/><hr \/>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Chapter 9 of the Nei-yeh, the Inward Training<\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">From:<\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Original Tao, Inward Training and the Foundations of Taoist Mysticism<\/h4>\n<h4 style=\"text-align: center;\">Translation by Harold D. Roth<span id='easy-footnote-3-8128' class='easy-footnote-margin-adjust'><\/span><span class='easy-footnote'><a href='https:\/\/www.elizabethbader.com\/elizabethbadersblog\/true-mastery-in-difficult-situations-lessons-from-the-ancient-chinese\/#easy-footnote-bottom-3-8128' title='See footnote 2 above for the full citation of this text.'><sup>3<\/sup><\/a><\/span><\/h4>\n<p>\u00a0Those who can transform even a single thing, call them \u201cnuminous\u201d;<\/p>\n<p>Those who can alter even a single situation, call them \u201cwise.\u201d<\/p>\n<p>But to transform without expending vital energy [chi]; to alter without expending wisdom:<\/p>\n<p>Only exemplary persons who hold fast to the One are able to do this.<\/p>\n<p>Hold fast to the One; do not lose it,<\/p>\n<p>And you will be able to master the myriad things.<\/p>\n<p>Exemplary persons act upon things,<\/p>\n<p>And are not acted upon by them,<\/p>\n<p>Because they grasp the guiding principle of the One.<\/p>\n<hr \/>\n<p><strong>Notes<\/strong><\/p>\n<!--themify_builder_content-->\n<div id=\"themify_builder_content-8128\" data-postid=\"8128\" class=\"themify_builder_content themify_builder_content-8128 themify_builder tf_clear\">\n    <\/div>\n<!--\/themify_builder_content-->","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>The Nei-yeh is an ancient Chinese text that has profound words for those who wish to transform difficult situations, including mediators, therapists and everyone else.  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